Hello everybody,
I (21 F) usually have a problem in relation to saving cash. I’ve a reasonably good financial savings, sitting in double figures, however once I put extra money in , I simply take it proper again out.
I’ve acknowledged that is unhealthy as I’m going by means of a whole lot of different points at present, I believe it’s linked rather a lot to my anxiousness and getting a dopamine hit once I do spend. My bf (22 M) and I are lengthy distance and making an attempt to avoid wasting collectively, he has about 2k plus greater than me in financial savings and I really feel horrible about it. Primarily as a result of he jogs my memory rather a lot that he’s saved greater than me and will get upset with me about it.
I’ve felt so unhealthy about how much less I’ve in comparison with him that I’ve lied about how a lot I do have. He’s coming over quickly and I’ve spent fairly a bit on us to do, however I simply really feel horrible that he has greater than me. Any recommendation will likely be appreciated! I’ve seen that issues like rocket cash can normally set off me to wish to spend extra, so I’m going to modify to only utilizing my calendar.
Thanks all prematurely!